Men’s Drop In Attachment Group

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Explore | Connect | Heal |

Men’s Drop In Attachment Group

What is this?
A bi-monthly men’s group that meets in person in Boulder, CO, open to men who need support. If you’ve been curious about men’s work, or just haven’t been able to find a group to join yet, this place is for you. Even if you are a men’s group veteran, you are welcome here. We will have a specific focus on attachment and all of the dynamics that play out from that aspect of our being.

When?
Every other Monday from 6pm to 9pm. We start promptly at 6pm, so please arrive 10 minutes early. See the Calendly link for open times. We are limited to 8 men per group.

Why?
We need support. And we need places to gather to support each other. Men’s groups have been invaluable to my own life, and I know far too many men living without knowing how important it is to have these sacred spaces. My ideal is that men come, meet community, and eventually start their own groups with men they vibe with from this one. Please feel free to share this page with men you think would be a good fit.

Costs?
$25/group. Send payment when you reserve your space. Venmo is @BunanBrown

Where?
We will meet at my house in Gunbarrel, CO Address sent upon signup.

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  • Multiple hands of various sizes and skin tones stacked together, symbolizing unity and teamwork.

    Repair Attachment

  • A group of people sitting on cushions in a circle during a meditation or discussion session inside a room with large windows showing green trees outside.

    Develop Integrity & Authenticity

  • Silhouette of one person helping another climb a hill at sunset.

    Community Support and Accountability

  • A couple hugging and kissing at the beach during sunset.

    Secure Dating and Relationships

Meet Your Facilitators

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Rev Bu Nan Brown

Bu Nan Brown is a somatic attachment repair specialist, ordained Buddhist Priest, group facilitator, and all-around smart dude. He uses his expertise in attachment and interpersonal insight to guide groups into connected healing states, while teaching in a pointing out style so that the unseen becomes revealed. His guidance helps relieve the suffering of early attachment wounds, so that we all may have fruitful lives and relationships. He considers part of his dharma in the world to digest the leading edge of attachment research, and reiterate it in a way that is usable in the world.

Andrew Silver

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After 15 years crafting video games, Andrew swapped redesigning characters for repairing attachment styles. His own transformative attachment repair journey with Bu Nan not only reshaped his relationships but inspired him to help others, particularly men and fathers, navigate their own paths toward secure attachment.

Andrew is trained in Integrative Attachment Therapy and combines Internal Family Systems, Polyvagal Theory, and Memory Reconsolidation to help clients step out of their deeply ingrained patterns to learn how to self author their lives and reclaim their sense of self. With warmth, genuine care, and a healthy dose of humor, Andrew supports his clients in building secure attachment patterns, enhancing their relationships, and raising securely attached children.

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